Hi, welcome to Curious Chair!
I'm Aubrey, a Singapore-Zurich based coach, creative and psychologist in-training propelled by the question — 'why we are who we are & how can we lead a better life?'
I help guide people in exploring this question and forge a deeper relationship with themselves and life, to rediscover joy, growth and meaning.
My expertise lies in instilling leadership that allows you to challenge comfortability, shake up the rigidity of minds, and drive changes you desire through accountability. My experience allows me to understand people from different walks of life and cater a style and pace that makes sense for you, to work towards your goal together with a better sense of clarity and resilience to manage the discomfort.
about
I never liked fitting into one box, though I didn't know how to be if I were to break out of one. Having now rebuilt my life many times and danced through a few pivots (some more gracefully than others), I can happily claim space by drawing boxes on top of boxes without having to resize myself into just one.
I bring a spectrum of cross-cultural human perspectives into my work, spanning over science, art, technology & business, that formed my unique point of view on life and the world around us. Just like how your experience informs yours! It is the subtle (sometimes contrasting) differences in our perspectives that further complete the whole picture of our understanding.
I am excited about enabling changes with you!
focus
I am engaged for
decision
You have a decision to make
Success at its simplest is to know what you want and learn how to get there, but knowing what you want for most is already a difficult task. It's usually not the lack of self-knowledge, but the conflicting desires and competing thoughts that stop our way. Let's explore your wants & needs and get organized and honest with those ideas.
change
You need to see through a change
Whether we like it or not, change is the only constant, and it's uncomfortable no matter whether we initiated it, or whether it was inflicted upon us. The fleeing urges point towards what makes us avoid actions — the hidden emotions — disguised in many forms. It may not be the outcome that defines the change, but the ownership you take, that makes it far more rewarding. We can clear that path and get you over the finish line steadily.
growth
You are committed to growth
Welcome to the winding discovery of wonders! It is a circular path and an ongoing pursuit. Becoming your better self is just like fitness routines, the growth takes practice and time. The process is often so unpleasant that it's tempting and convenient to give in to fallacies. The effort is made alone, but the journey doesn't have to be. I would be thrilled to support you in building a life of authenticity and integrity.
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"Aubrey carries a rare kind of energy that you don’t find in every coach. Her superpower lies not only in her deep listening and ability to hold a safe, judgment-free space, but also in her gentle yet focused guidance. Conversations with her feel both light and meaningful, and you can always walk away with more clarity and accountability. Aubrey brings creativity, compassion, and precision together in a way that makes every session truly transformative."